Dear Friend.. Look before you leap...

This time my choice of topic is LOVE.

I am here to express my opinion on it and listen to yours too...(This writeup sprang up from a casual chat i had last nite with my friends)

I would simply put Love in Shakespeare's words crisply as "Love, Labour, Loss".

Though he had made this statement at a tragic moment, I have my own interpretation of the same.

Love - An awesome feeling, Overwhelming emotion

Labour- Yes it is. You need to work for a better understanding and relationship together as partners.

Loss - You indeed will be losing your impatience in a relationship, unstable thoughts, you will lose your identity of which caste, community, status....

Seriously what i have wrote here is wat i feel. (My thick friends can definitely identify me for the same)

But then why is there so much fuss and mess about this thing?

Bcoz it involves people from two different planets? :D Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus you already know...

I would simply put it as express whatever you feel about the other person you like but in a soft manner.

It is only that we start taking our partner for granted after things get working that we forget to acknowledge them as an individual with different thoughts and views and objectives in life.

The most important thing according to me in a relationship is personal space to have their own private time for doing things, to cultivate their interests, or to mingle with their friends.

A tab on all these from either partner can cause tremors in a smooth ride and thereby giving way to expressions of dissatisfaction or compromise.

One always tends to show the best of him/her in the initial days and as days go by, you get to feel the real lion/lioness out of the den.

Change this concept of acting good and start behaving wat you always are. We should learn to accept the other person as they are.... attempting to change them to your suits will cause unnecessary arguments leading to rattles and battles (of words.. )

To simply put things don keep things in ur heart and keep them pressed deep inside. If u like somebody. go ahead tell them wat u feel about them.. (never mind what they wil think. or reply,even if they already have an affair with someone els.. n stuffs like tat)

Clear your heart of things first... When the other person reciprocates as you didnt want them to.. NEVER MIND... Love is not like "ONCE IN A LIFETIME OFFER".

Give some time yourself to heal and then get ready to fall in love all over again.

I always have felt like Love is something like a little puppy. You acknowledge it, it wil wag its tail and follow you behind. You still nurture the puppy and give it some more attention.. it will vouch you for a master. Its always there whenever you are in need for a company.

I hope the message has been sent to the right person at the right time.

Dear friend.. its your life.. take it in ur hands and get ready for the roller-coaster ride called LIFE.

But don forget to buy the ticket LOVE.